Liz
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« Reply #15 on: October 13, 2008, 11:40:50 AM » |
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Tell him that although you have not managed to lose your baby weight yet, you have thought of a fantastic way to make his bank account and all his assets lose half their weight.
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Lola
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« Reply #16 on: October 13, 2008, 12:11:09 PM » |
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OMG That is awful, and you don't deserve to be spoken to this way !I gained so much more weight than you have , slowly, due to medication I was put on, and one of the big side effects was weight gain. My husband watched me buy bigger & bigger clothes. He NEVER called me anything negative. Instead, for Christmas, he put this package of sneakers, and socks, and a workout outfit in a new gym bag with a membership to a Club. He made it fun and not mean.Suggest that you BOTH join a fitness club, and that he a look in the mirror when he gets out of the shower. (" we both need to tone up") You quit smoking to please him? I hope you did it for YOU , Think how wonderful a smoke free environment is for your baby girl, too ! Congratulations on quitting, I did too and it takes determination.( and yup, I ate everything in site just to keep a cigarette out of my mouth, and gained weight LOL ) If you did that, you can loose the weight. Exercise, change in diet, ( is he willing to eat differently?). Do not doubt you have the will power if he would quit picking on you and be proud of you and encourage you instead.If it gets down to brass tacks, say you just can't feel motivated since he doesn't seem to care about losing weight either.Is he willing to change HIS diet, and exercise , too ? Turn it right around on him, and say you just want him to live a long life, etc. You ought to have him speechless.
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jimm_b
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« Reply #17 on: October 13, 2008, 12:41:28 PM » |
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Hey , The next time he says that to you tell him that he has a lil dick and you will loose weight if he can make his weiner bigger :-)
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DonnaR
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« Reply #18 on: October 13, 2008, 01:11:47 PM » |
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I've gained weight since having 2 kids too . Lots of things contribute to weight gain though mine's also menopause and depression.When 2 people love each other weight should not play a big factor they married you for better and for worse...it sounds like your husband keeps finding things he wants you to change tell him when he's willing to change some of the things you don't like about himself you will too , but then you will only do it for yourself.He should be the one to worry about living a long life also a marriage takes 2 people's effort not just one.
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ProudMomof3
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« Reply #19 on: October 13, 2008, 01:42:06 PM » |
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It doesn't sound like you shouldn't be his wife, but maybe he shouldn't be your husband, because he's not a very good one. Any man who keeps calling his wife fat, can't be much of one. You already tried to please him by quitting smoking, what else you going to do to please him? You have to please yourself first, before you please anyone else, and it doesn't sound like you are pleased. I think you know what to do.
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